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Friday, March 19, 2010
I just went to my cousin blog and read one of her latest post and i find it quite meaningful . I wonder if i enjoy being in solitude sometimes cause it give me some space to ponder about some topics .
For today , i was eating alone at subway after a hair-cut and my mind started to ponder on the topic of relationship . Well , relationship means a lot of things to me but being a teenager , my mind soon focus on boy-girl relationship .
So,as i was eating , my mind was producing opinion regarding that relationship . This relationship can have a lot of impact on both parties involve in it . I have seen successful relationships and unsuccessful relationships . Then , i started to ask myself , as an observer , what causes some relationships to be so successful whereas some to fail .
The answer was simple . The most important thing to a relationship is trust between the 2 people involve . The moment the trust is gone , well , you can be sure a break-up is bound to happen sooner or later . Of course there are other factors that are involve such as feelings , etc .
Feelings is a very important factor in a relationship . It is the reason why 2 people stead . It is what makes a relationship enjoyable , regardless is it kinship,friendship,romance ,etc .
Being an observer , i realised that there is always a trend in everything . Take romance as an example : i noticed it always start with feelings for each other but always end due to petty problems but mostly is distrust between the 2 people involve .
Well , personally , I do not think that this is a good time to be involve in romance as we are still teenagers . What is important for us should be our studies and our friends . Besides those things , i can't be bothered with anything else
"Assumptions are the termites of relationships" - Henry Winkler
